There is a mindset shift I see as beneficial for the majority of people. The shift is to stop taking ourselves so seriously.
There is Buddhist saying that recommends we hold in one hand the belief that we are powerful and can create many wonderful, positive and beneficial outcomes. In the other hand we are told to hold that we are meaningless and powerlessness.
I am not an eastern mystic, but I do believe there is something to be said for doing our very best each day to positively impact those around us while also cultivating levity, playfulness and fun. Not the levity, playfulness and fun of a kindergarten class at play time, but rather a levity, fun and playfulness that dispels angst and anxiety.
This is especially important in the world of work where nine times out of ten it is not life and death. Some of you reading this will say, “actually, work for me is life and death. I’m an emergency room nurse or I’m a surgeon and I am confronted daily with life and death situations.” If that’s the case, you have an even greater need to infuse levity, fun and playfulness into your life.
We all need an ability to pull away from the harshness of the day and to watch a funny movie, to tell a joke or to have something that brings happiness, joy or wonder into our lives. Without this ability to not take ourselves so seriously work and life becomes a long slow slog on our belly through enemy territory with bullets flying overhead.
Today, what is the one thing you will do to laugh, smile and not take yourself so seriously?